Health: Mental Health Support and Help-Seeking Scenarios
Practicing safe, respectful ways to ask for help and support others
Health: Mental Health Support and Help-Seeking Scenarios
Practicing safe, respectful ways to ask for help and support others
Health - Grade 6-8
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Jordan has seemed very quiet for two weeks, stopped sitting with friends at lunch, and has not turned in several assignments. You are worried but do not want to embarrass Jordan. What is one caring way to start a conversation?
Use an "I noticed" statement instead of accusing or judging.
A caring way to start is to speak privately and say something like, "I have noticed you have seemed down and have been sitting alone. I care about you. Do you want to talk, or would you like help finding an adult you trust?" This is respectful because it is private, specific, and supportive. - 2
A friend texts you, "I cannot do this anymore. Everyone would be better off without me." What should you do next?
When someone might hurt themselves, safety is more important than secrecy.
You should take the message seriously and get help from a trusted adult right away, such as a parent, guardian, teacher, counselor, or coach. You should not promise to keep it secret. If there is immediate danger, call emergency services or a crisis hotline in your area. - 3
Maya wants to talk to the school counselor but worries that other students will think she is weak. Write one sentence Maya could tell herself to challenge that worry.
Maya could tell herself, "Asking for help is a strong and healthy choice, and many people talk to counselors when they need support." This thought challenges the idea that help-seeking is a weakness. - 4
List three trusted adults a middle school student could ask for help with a mental health concern.
Trusted adults are people who are responsible, safe, and able to connect a student with support.
A middle school student could ask a parent or guardian, a school counselor, and a teacher for help. Other trusted adults could include a nurse, coach, relative, or faith or community leader. - 5
Sam says, "I am stressed about my grades, but I do not want to bother anyone." Write a supportive response that encourages Sam to seek help.
A supportive response could be, "You are not bothering anyone. Teachers, counselors, and family members want to help you when school feels overwhelming. We can talk to someone together if you want." This response validates Sam and offers support. - 6
Read the options and choose the safest response. Your friend tells you they have been skipping meals because they feel bad about their body. A: Joke about it to make them feel less serious. B: Tell them you are concerned and encourage them to talk to a trusted adult. C: Ignore it because it is their choice. Explain your answer.
A safe response does not shame the person or ignore a possible health concern.
The safest response is B. Skipping meals because of body image concerns can be a serious health issue, so it is important to respond with care and encourage help from a trusted adult. - 7
Why is it usually not helpful to say, "Just get over it," to someone who is feeling anxious or depressed?
It is not helpful because it can make the person feel judged, ignored, or ashamed. A better response is to listen, show care, and encourage the person to get support if the feelings are strong or lasting. - 8
Create a simple three-step help-seeking plan for a student who feels overwhelmed by school, friendships, and family stress.
A good plan includes noticing the problem, choosing support, and taking a safe action.
A three-step plan could be: first, name the problem and write down what feels overwhelming. Second, choose a trusted adult to talk to, such as a counselor or parent. Third, ask for a specific kind of help, such as making a homework plan or finding coping strategies. - 9
Taylor tells you a secret: they have been feeling sad every day for a month but do not want any adult to know. Taylor is not in immediate danger, but you are concerned. What should you do?
You should support Taylor and encourage them to talk with a trusted adult, such as a counselor, parent, or teacher. If Taylor refuses, you should still talk to a trusted adult yourself because long-lasting sadness may need support. - 10
Write two signs that stress may be becoming too much for a student to handle alone.
Think about changes in body, behavior, mood, and school habits.
Two signs are having trouble sleeping or eating and avoiding friends or activities that used to be enjoyable. Other signs can include frequent headaches, anger, crying often, panic feelings, or falling behind in school. - 11
A classmate has a panic attack before a presentation. They are breathing fast and look frightened. What are two helpful things you can do in the moment?
Two helpful things are to stay calm and speak in a quiet, reassuring voice, and to get a trusted adult such as a teacher or nurse. You can also encourage slow breathing if they are willing, but you should not crowd them or make fun of them. - 12
Choose the better statement for supporting a friend and explain why. Statement 1: "Other people have it worse, so stop being upset." Statement 2: "That sounds really hard. I am here with you, and we can find help if you want."
Supportive language shows empathy and does not turn feelings into a competition.
Statement 2 is better because it validates the friend's feelings and offers support. Statement 1 compares problems and may make the friend feel guilty or unheard. - 13
A student wants privacy when talking about mental health. What is one way a school can support privacy while still keeping students safe?
A school can provide private places to talk, such as a counselor's office, and explain confidentiality rules clearly. The school should also explain that adults must get help if someone is in danger or may harm themselves or others. - 14
Your friend says they do not want therapy because "therapy is only for people with huge problems." How could you respond in a respectful and accurate way?
Mental health support can be useful before a problem becomes a crisis.
You could say, "Therapy can help with many kinds of problems, including stress, grief, anxiety, friendship issues, and big life changes. You do not have to wait until things are at their worst to get support." This response corrects the myth without insulting the friend. - 15
Look at the support circle idea: self-care strategies, friends, trusted adults, school supports, and emergency help. Give one example of when each level might be useful.
Self-care strategies might help with a stressful day, such as using deep breathing or taking a walk. Friends might help when someone needs to talk and feel less alone. Trusted adults might help when feelings last a long time or problems feel too big. School supports might help with counseling, bullying, or academic stress. Emergency help is needed if someone may hurt themselves or someone else.